Thursday, December 24, 2015

Real Housewives of the Old Testament (Christmas Eve)

 First, I want to wish all of you a holy and merry Christmas! To our visitors: Thank you for joining our community in prayer. For our parishioners: thank you for making St. Michael your spiritual family.
In case you didn’t notice it, we just heard 47 names in the gospel; most of which you will never hear outside of the bible. To be honest, I wouldn’t give many of those names to my worst enemy.... or a goldfish. What we may have missed in these unusual names is the fact that four women were included. This doesn’t seem strange to us, but in the time it was written it would have grabbed people’s attention because it was not customary for Jews to include women in their records and genealogies. And these were not just four women! They were imperfect, wild, scrappy, and sometimes manipulative. I would call them the real housewives of the Old Testament!

FIRST WE HAVE … Tamar who was the daughter-in-law of Judah. She was a childless widow, who was given to her brother-in-law after her husband's death, according to Jewish law. By this marriage, her offspring would continue the family name and receive an inheritance. Unfortunately, Tamar's brother-in-law refused her as his wife and they did not have any children. He was punished by God and died. Afterwards, Judah (Tamar’s father-in-law) would not give Tamar to any of his other sons. So Tamar disguised herself and became pregnant with Judah’s child!  Through him, she became the mother of Perez! Though her methods were unconventional, she persevered in following the law.

SECOND WE HAVE … Rahab. Rahab was a woman of the night who lived in Jericho. Risking her own life, she hid the two spies of Joshua.  Because of this, Joshua spared her life when they conquered Jericho. She later became the wife of Salmon, and the mother of Boaz. Rahab's faith was praised in the Bible even though at one time she had lived an immoral and disordered life.

THIRD WE HAVE … Ruth.  She was a foreigner from the land of Moab and a widow of a Jew. Her mother-in-law, Naomi, also lived in Moab.  After both women lost their husbands, Ruth left her home and devoted herself to caring for her mother-in-law. While in Israel, Ruth was married to Boaz, one of Naomi's relatives. Despite the fact that she was not Jewish, Ruth became the mother of Obed, the grandfather of King David.

FOURTH WE HAVE … Bathsheba.  She was the wife of Uriah the Hittite, a captain in the army of King David. We all know the story of David and Bathsheba.  She was discovered by King David, who saw her and fell in love in her. She and David had an affair when URIAH was away, fighting for David’s army. When David discovered Bathsheba was with child, he tried to cover it up by summoning Uriah home from war, hoping that Uriah would have relations with his wife. Uriah came back to Jerusalem, but refused to stay with Bathsheba as long as his army was at war. As a result, David sent Uriah back into battle, with orders that Uriah should be sent to the front lines so that he would be killed in combat. After Uriah died, David took Bathsheba as his own wife. Bathsheba eventually became the mother of King Solomon.

These four women were not the kind of women you would expect to have such an impact on the kingdom of God. They were nowhere near perfect, and yet God, in His kindness and mercy, made them part of His perfect plan to bring forth the Savior of the world.”
I hope these stories touch the very core of your soul. Tamar's story is one of utter perseverance. Rahab's story reminds me to have faith. Ruth's story is a reminder of the power of love. Bathsheba's heart spurs us all to have more grace towards people.
What appeals to me in these stories of TAMAR, RAHAB, RUTH and BATHSHEBA is that each one of these women was flawed. They were not a typical choice to carry the lineage of Christ the King. They made mistakes. They were deceived by the world at certain points in their lives … and they also deceived.
But they also believed in GOD. They kept their faith. They knew deep within that God was supreme. They knew that God could restore them. They knew that He could redeem their past.
I find these stories encouraging for all of us.  I think these stories are relevant.  It’s very easy to “GET THEM”.  The characters are just like people who we might meet. In many ways, when we look at them, we are looking in the mirror.  
It’s easy to understand their despair ... their shame ... their perseverance ... their hope ... and their desire for redemption.  And I rejoice in God who saves, restores, and uses the unlikely for His greater purpose in this world. EVEN PEOPLE AS unlikely and sinful AS YOU AND ME! 
Matthew's genealogy of Jesus certainly reminds us that God does not always do things the way we do.  For this reason, there are some important lessons to be learned from Matthew's inclusion of the first four women.
a) Be very careful when you come to the conclusion that you have God "figured out" and know what God would do; you may be deceiving yourself.
b) God measures righteousness by different standards than do most of us; we need to place our faith in his standards and not our own.
c) God can make use of anyone to accomplish His purposes if that person places his or her faith in God in a dependent relationship.
d) Through His forgiveness, God often uses His power to value those we would reject.

To me, the greatest lesson of all is accepting this truth: God's ways are not our ways. No one ever understood God as completely and correctly as HIS SON, Jesus Christ.  No one ever modeled the physical behavior that God wants and honors as Jesus did. If we want to understand God and be a part of his plan to save, heal, and renew then we must stay close to Christ, whose birth we celebrate tonight/today. The best way to do this is by receiving the sacraments properly, coming to mass each week and making time for daily prayer. Through these things, we allow Jesus to teach us what it means to be sons and daughters of God.

May God bless you and your loved ones in this special season of grace. May you allow him to use your life to write the next chapter of salvation history so that you will be a blessing to many in the coming year.