Tips For the Children of Light, (25th Sunday, Year C)

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This parable is always a good time! The first impression causes a spiritual double take as we try to figure out if Jesus’ praise of the dishonest steward is encouraging us to become shifty Christians. It reminds me of the story of a young lawyer who was sent to represent a railroad company being sued by a farmer. The farmer’s prize cow had gone missing, and he blamed the railroad. The clever lawyer convinced the farmer to settle out of court for half of what he originally wanted. After the papers were signed and the check was cashed, the lawyer couldn’t help gloating. He said, “You know, I couldn’t have won that case if it had gone to trial. The engineer was asleep, and the fireman was in the caboose when the train passed through your farm that morning. I didn’t have a single witness to put on the stand!” With a smile, the farmer said, “Well, I’ll tell you, young feller, I was a little worried about winning that case myself because that cow came home this morning.”

Both the farmer and the lawyer knew something about shrewdness and so did the steward in Jesus’ parable.

While Jesus is not praising dishonesty, he admires the steward’s cleverness and resourcefulness, his willingness to do anything and everything in his power to ensure his future well-being. Faced with a crisis, the steward used his wits to prepare for what comes next. Jesus’ challenge is simple: if people can be that clever about worldly things, shouldn’t his followers be at least that wise about eternal things?

If we take the time to think about it, we see Jesus’ point all around us. The “children of this world,” as Jesus calls them, the political elites, business tycoons, and most famous celebrities all spend enormous energy planning, investing, networking, and working to secure their future. They build their legacy, store up wealth, strategize for careers, and scheme to get ahead. Jesus asks us: do you put that same energy into preparing for eternity? Do you give as much attention to your soul as your investments, your job, your reputation and your hobbies?

That’s the first takeaway for us. Our faith is not something to be lived halfheartedly or with whatever is leftover after we have done everything else. If the people of this world pour themselves into worldly success, then we, the children of light, must pour ourselves into holiness, into building up the kingdom, into storing up treasure in heaven with all the ingenuity and scrappiness we can muster.

The second takeaway is this: everything we have is on loan. None of it is ours forever. Our money, our possessions, even our lives, all belong to God and we are stewards. One day we will have to give an account of how we used them. This is where the parable stings a little. Each and every one of us will stand before God. Each and every one of us will have to answer the question: What did you do with the time, the talents, the opportunities, and the resources I entrusted to you?

That thought should sober us. There is no such thing as working too hard to ensure eternal happiness and union with God. People will give years of their lives to build a career, decades to pay off a home, countless hours to maintain health and fitness. But what about our souls? What about eternity? That is the one future we can’t afford to neglect.

Here’s the good news: God most often asks us to demonstrate our stewardship by being faithful in small things we are all capable of doing. Most of our lives are made up of little opportunities: a kind word, an honest day’s work, a visit to the lonely, a helping hand, a thoughtful gift. Jesus tells us that how we handle the little things is the best test of how we will handle the big things. To be faithful in small matters is the path to being entrusted with greatest gift of all which is eternal life.

A third takeaway is generosity. Jesus is telling us to use our wealth, our resources, our gifts not to build monuments to ourselves but to establish holy relationships, to help the poor, to serve the kingdom. An old saying puts it well: money can buy everything but happiness, and it can purchase a ticket to every place except heaven. The true measure of our wealth is not what we keep, but what we give away. Every act of love is a deposit in eternity.

And finally, Jesus ends with the stark truth: No servant can serve two masters. We can’t hedge our bets. We can’t pretend to be Christians while serving money, comfort, or self-interest on the side. God wants all of us. Not part-time loyalty, but total devotion.

Today’s Gospel is a call to wake up. It is a call to be wise, to be shrewd in the things of God. To prepare for the ultimate future, which is not just retirement, but eternity. To live as stewards, not owners. To be generous, faithful, and single-hearted in our devotion to God.

Because in the end, each of us will stand before the Lord. We will give an account of our lives. And on that day, no excuse, no cleverness, no shifting of the numbers will matter. What will matter is whether we used God’s gifts for His glory, whether we were faithful in little things, and whether we lived with love.

So let’s not wait until the last minute to start preparing. Let’s begin now, faithfully, generously, wholeheartedly, so one day we may hear those words we all long to hear: “Well done, good and faithful servant. Come, share your master’s joy.”

 

Building a Spiritual Budget (23rd Sunday, Year C)

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When I bought my very first new car, I spent a tremendous amount of time researching. By the time I got to the dealership for a test drive, I didn’t really have any questions about the car I was buying; I had read just about every article and review written about it! I had worked the numbers, checked my budget, and felt pretty good about being able to afford it. I was proud of myself; this was my first really big purchase. But then I went to license the vehicle and was hit with an extra cost I hadn’t planned for: the taxes. Suddenly my thorough planning didn’t seem so complete anymore! It was a lesson I learned the hard way, that with any big purchase, there are always hidden costs you’d better prepare for.

Major purchases need careful thought and planning. If you buy a house, you have to think not just about the price tag, but also the taxes, insurance, utilities, and repairs. You want to know if the neighborhood is safe, what schools are nearby, whether you can really afford to live there. We research appliances, electronics, even phones before we buy them because we know neglecting to plan could be disastrous.

As important as this kind of research is, Jesus tells us today that there’s something even more important to plan for: discipleship. Over the past three Sundays, we’ve been hearing a trilogy of saving truths from him. Two weeks ago, he told us we can only enter heaven through the narrow gate. Last Sunday he gave us the key to that gate: humility, “everyone who exalts himself will be humbled, but the one who humbles himself will be exalted.” And today, Jesus tells us what that key actually costs: “Any of you who does not renounce all his possessions cannot be my disciple.”

It shouldn’t surprise us that the cost of heaven is steep. Jesus says, “calculate the cost.” If you’re going to build a tower, make sure you can finish it. We know that’s true with cars, houses, or anything expensive. And if we want to follow Jesus, which is the only path to eternal life, we need to know the cost up front: everything.

That’s where the challenge comes in. Eternal life is precious, but it requires a willingness to give up anything that stands in the way. Jesus is asking us to take stock of our lives the way we’d look at a budget. What are the hidden costs that might keep us from really following him? You can come up with your list of possibilities but here are a few common ones.

Do I follow Christ in the way I speak to others…or about others? Am I willing to give up gossip, bragging, or putting people down, even if it feels good in the moment? Or is that too steep a cost?

What about my friends? Do they encourage me to grow as a disciple, to make good choices, to respect myself and others? Or do they pull me away from Christ and into things that harm me? Am I willing to let go of those friendships if they keep me from God? Jesus even goes so far as to say we must be willing to let go of family ties if they block our path to him. Is that cost too much?

And then there are our possessions. Am I generous with what I’ve been given? Do I give to the poor, support my parish, share my time and talents? Or do I cling too tightly to what I have? If God asked me for more, would I trust him enough to give it? Or is that too costly?

There are so many areas where Jesus invites us to ask, “Is there anything in my heart that I’ve told him is off limits?” Would I follow if he called me to the priesthood or religious life? Am I willing to work on being more present and kind towards spouse and children? Do I stand up for the dignity of every human life, even when it’s unpopular? Can I trust God enough to let him guide my marriage and family life, letting go of fear, selfishness, or the desire to control?

The cost of discipleship is high, but the promise is eternal life. That’s why Jesus tells us to count the cost, but not to be afraid of it. Whatever he asks of us, he also gives us the strength,  joy, and grace to carry out. And when we put as much effort into our spiritual lives as we do into our financial ones: planning for prayer, budgeting time to deepen our faith, examining the “hidden costs” that keep us from following, we find the freedom and peace that only Christ can give.

As we come to this Eucharist, let’s take the time to calculate the cost and embrace it. To take up our cross and follow after Jesus. Because in the end, he is not just worth the price; he is the one who helps us to pay it and the reward he offers is life without end.

Signs of Vanity (22nd Sunday, Year C)

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One of the challenges when preaching about humility is that many people have an incomplete idea of what the virtue actually looks like. We’ve all run into different misconceptions which tend to be defined by superficial or self-hating parodies. Some think humility means always putting yourself last in line, denying any praise you receive, or brushing off compliments in awkward ways. Others think humility means pretending you don’t have gifts or talents at all. But these are all caricatures and forms of false humility.

True humility doesn’t mean thinking less of yourself; it means thinking of yourself less. Holy humility allows us to look at ourselves with clarity and charity, both the good and the bad, and get a sense of how we appear in the eyes of God. Humility doesn’t deny the gifts God has given, it acknowledges them with joy and gratitude and then asks, “How can I use these gifts for others?”

Sometimes it helps to understand something by looking at its opposite. The opposite of humility is vanity. Vanity is the unhealthy worry about how we look in the eyes of others instead of God.

Now, it’s good to have some self-awareness. We should care about how we present ourselves: basic habits like chewing with our mouth closed, practicing good hygiene, being polite and respectful. Those aren’t vanity, they’re part of healthy consideration for others. Every year when I was in seminary, they would host a dinner class with “Miss Manners” who would attempt to wrangle 100+ seminarians to comport themselves with some dignity. Manners are not about making us fancy or pretentious. They’re about making others feel comfortable and respected. A healthy self-awareness can build bridges between us and those we are around, and those same manners can be used in our relationship with God.

Vanity, however, twists that healthy self-awareness and makes it all about me. It takes something meant to connect us with others and turns it into a spotlight shining back on ourselves.

So how do we know if vanity is creeping into our lives? Let me offer four symptoms to watch for:

First—Everything is always about us. We dominate conversations, fail to listen, and put ourselves first whenever there’s conflict. Even when we are not talking, we are preparing our response to whatever the other person is saying. A humble person makes space for others; truly listens and considers their point of view; a vain person only fills the room with themselves.

Second—We’re never wrong. The first reading says the wise love proverbs…meaning, the wise are teachable and acknowledge how much they don’t know. The humble are willing to learn, even from correction and criticism. The vain, on the other hand, never admit mistakes or always have some excuse. Spiritually, the humble want to see their sins so they can bring them to God for healing. The vain refuse to acknowledge them, thinking it’s weakness. But Jesus reminds us of the irony of the Gospel: the greatest are the servants, the first are the last, and those who admit their weakness are the ones made strong.

Third—We let the opinions of others dictate how we live. We become chameleons, acting one way at church and another way in the world, shifting who we are to win approval. Vanity makes us more concerned with reputation than with relationship; with looking good in front of others instead of being real before God. Part of being real with God is asking for help, admitting confusion with life’s mysteries, and acknowledging our inability to defeat evil by ourselves.

An especially sad example of this has surfaced in recent years whenever evil strikes. After the Annunciation school tragedy this week, some reacted negatively to the flood of promised prayers to the victims and their afflicted community. These voices loudly denounced such prayers as empty, useless, and incomplete; saying, in effect, “we don’t need prayer, we’ll solve this ourselves.” Bishop Robert Barron pointed out that this attitude is not only dismissive of faith, but it’s also a form of pride. To declare that prayer has no place in these moments of suffering is to say that we are sufficient without God, that our wisdom and strength alone will heal what is broken. It reduces prayer to a slogan instead of seeing it as the lifeline that connects us to the One who can transform hearts. And since we are in a life-and-death struggle with evil, prayer is one of the main tools we have. To try and win a spiritual battle with human efforts alone will be a tremendous mistake and always end in failure and even more suffering. 

Humility, on the other hand, never abandons prayer. Yes, we work to solve the problems we face with practical, real-world solutions. But we begin by kneeling before the Lord, admitting that the deepest healing and the truest wisdom will always come from Him. And sometimes, even with prayer, terrible suffering will happen. Why is a mystery. But to give up prayer is to cut ourselves off from the very source of peace and mercy we need most.

Fourth—We hide our true selves from God. Sometimes we tell ourselves, “God thinks I’m perfect just the way I am; there is no need to change, no need for confession, no need for growth.” But if that were true, why did Jesus come? Why did He die on the Cross? Why did He give us the sacraments of mercy and healing? The truth is, God already knows our wounds and sins. Hiding them is vanity. Real humility means coming before Him honestly, acknowledging we need Him, and letting Him heal us in the ways he has established.

Every healthy relationship, whether it’s friendship, marriage, family, or faith, depends on humility and is destroyed by vanity. The vain person is too full of themselves to have room for anyone else. The humble person makes space… for others, for God.

There’s an old saying: “Keep your sanity by remembering two things: first, there is a God. Second, I am not Him.” That’s humility. Faith itself can’t happen without it. We can’t grow closer to God if we’re constantly telling Him how things should be done, instead of letting Him be Lord.

And so, the invitation this Sunday is clear: let go of vanity and embrace true humility. Either we freely choose to learn from God now through prayer, service, and openness to His Word. Or we learn the hard way, by being humbled through our pride. Jesus’ words ring as true today as when He first spoke them: “Everyone who exalts himself will be humbled, but the one who humbles himself will be exalted.”